A Blog by Adrienne Wallace

June 19, 2015 I have been away for a bit from blogging, social media accounts and I spent almost two weeks off  my own personal facebook page. The world continued to turn on its axis. Things were in a swirl of sort and I want to stay in a healthy focused vortex with business and personal pursuits.   As an energetic being I felt the drama and tensions of June 2015 nevertheless.  During my time off the page, I discovered that a female skunk had babies and built her den in the backyard of the home. Pure luxury for her, I assure you.  I was alarmed and then observant.  There are five really cute "kits" (baby skunks) and their lone mother. No TV for them; just homeowners who would like them to relocate. We sprayed “organic” repellent (basically fox hormone) along the rocks and she is diligently working to place herself and those little black and white babies in a new home. We have been watching her.  The neighbors with two little girls who love ...

Dear men,  No matter what if,  you are a momma's boy it will negatively impact your relationship with the opposite sex and in all social circles.  When she realizes it she will lose a certain amount of respect for you and it will create stress in your relationship.  The trust that the two of you have will be limited because you likely blab to your mother about everything and constantly seek her rescue.  So unsexy! It simply lessens your masculine appeal That mother has not allowed you to stand up as a true man does. You are her " baby boy."  You are her son, but not the "sun" A MAN leaves mother's side and cleaves to his queen to become a king.  He understand s the sacred nature of a relationship with HIS woman. It is that simple.  If thi s sounds like you please know:  Love and loyalty to your mother is important and it means you act like a whole MAN and leave her out of enough of your personal affairs such that...

My very smart, aware and ever evolving brother said to me a while back that there is and will always be a significant difference between boys and MEN. He shared a strong and poignant opinion that a lack of self respect often the self hatred , absence of love, abuse, or negative cultural conditioning will always impact whether or not someone who is biologically a man is truly that (an adult man) mentally and socially. He and I both believe that it is indicative most often in the way a man treats a woman. I can tell you some stories. There are boys over 30, 40 and even older and  there are men under 20 years old walking this earth.   I have a 2 year old nephew who runs to open the door for the women in the family and tries to take grocery bags and carry them to the table when we women enter the house with them.He's just a boy biologically and he is watching and learning from his father. I consider and would call those that are biologically men but not socially men .. "Old...