Dear men,
No matter what if, you are a momma's boy it will negatively impact your relationship with the opposite sex and in all social circles.
When she realizes it she will lose a certain amount of respect for you and it will create stress in your relationship.
The trust that the two of you have will be limited because you likely blab to your mother about everything and constantly seek her rescue.
So unsexy! It simply lessens your masculine appeal
That mother has not allowed you to stand up as a true man does.
You are her " baby boy." You are her son, but not the "sun"
A MAN leaves mother's side and cleaves to his queen to become a king.
He understands the sacred nature of a relationship with HIS woman. It is that simple.
If this sounds like you please know:
Love and loyalty to your mother is important and it means you act like a whole MAN and leave her out of enough of your personal affairs such that she can be proud of the MAN you are.... which is not hers.
It means you address your shortcomings and take responsibility for them.
The overburden and misappropriation of communication to their mothers by a grown men is a device and catalyst to why some men are weak minded, emasculated, unable to be consistent connect and dedicate themselves to a life partner.
If the man's father and/or mother's husband is with his mother, he too is emasculated. The mother and her grown son have seen to that. The son is a constant interrupter. The father figure does not get the opportunity to live his full role because he tolerates the preoccupation and obsessions of mother and son. This dysfunction is something that the son ( man-boy) takes into countless other relationships. He is full of ego and expects everyone to mother him; he thinks looking grown is all there is and has no idea how to court, emotionally or physically nurture, or guard the heart of a queen. He is unworthy. Momma helped him be that. Is this you?
The mother: She denies his abject failure at well-lived life and makes constant attempts to mask it because in truth she takes the sons' failures personally. She hopes that each failed attempt at a relationship for him is his last. She wishes someone would come along that is weak enough in self respect to put up with all the ills of her man-boy.
There is nothing noble about a grown man being a "mama's boy." Grown men know this is pure weakness and being grown means the cord is cut and the necessary work on personal development is where he dedicates his time. Respect and love your mother, but the suckling should have stopped decades ago.
#Real talk.
*Such an ugly picture for my blog ..but ugly drives a point right?
No matter what if, you are a momma's boy it will negatively impact your relationship with the opposite sex and in all social circles.
When she realizes it she will lose a certain amount of respect for you and it will create stress in your relationship.
The trust that the two of you have will be limited because you likely blab to your mother about everything and constantly seek her rescue.
So unsexy! It simply lessens your masculine appeal
That mother has not allowed you to stand up as a true man does.
You are her " baby boy." You are her son, but not the "sun"
A MAN leaves mother's side and cleaves to his queen to become a king.
He understands the sacred nature of a relationship with HIS woman. It is that simple.
If this sounds like you please know:
Love and loyalty to your mother is important and it means you act like a whole MAN and leave her out of enough of your personal affairs such that she can be proud of the MAN you are.... which is not hers.
It means you address your shortcomings and take responsibility for them.
The overburden and misappropriation of communication to their mothers by a grown men is a device and catalyst to why some men are weak minded, emasculated, unable to be consistent connect and dedicate themselves to a life partner.
If the man's father and/or mother's husband is with his mother, he too is emasculated. The mother and her grown son have seen to that. The son is a constant interrupter. The father figure does not get the opportunity to live his full role because he tolerates the preoccupation and obsessions of mother and son. This dysfunction is something that the son ( man-boy) takes into countless other relationships. He is full of ego and expects everyone to mother him; he thinks looking grown is all there is and has no idea how to court, emotionally or physically nurture, or guard the heart of a queen. He is unworthy. Momma helped him be that. Is this you?
The mother: She denies his abject failure at well-lived life and makes constant attempts to mask it because in truth she takes the sons' failures personally. She hopes that each failed attempt at a relationship for him is his last. She wishes someone would come along that is weak enough in self respect to put up with all the ills of her man-boy.
There is nothing noble about a grown man being a "mama's boy." Grown men know this is pure weakness and being grown means the cord is cut and the necessary work on personal development is where he dedicates his time. Respect and love your mother, but the suckling should have stopped decades ago.
#Real talk.
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