I saw a message from a friend that required a bit of my life's learned philosophy to be considered and so I shared the following (that starts after the line) with her in reponse. Today, as I remind myself of how deeply connected people are and how the experiences of life can be so similar for many of us, I also decided that I needed to share this philosophy in a blog with the rest of you. Essentially, this person nicknamed "Young Lotus" was having some "confusion" with the false values and "constant pretending" of people. My response to anyone faced with this challenge with the dramatic and less than authentic is below. Remember it is not about the situation.It is about how we skillfully and spiritually respond to the challenge others present us with. All is well :)
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This makes perfect sense to me. As we become more conscious of to whom we belong and why we are here, we are more loving and able to invite more people in. That does not mean that our circle grows larger or that everyone who comes in offers authenticity, will add value or will even stay. It is for our learning and benefit that we have specific encounters and many are of our own choosing. It is not our amount but our depth that authenticates us. Therefore it is not the number of friends and SUPPORTERS, but the value they offer and that we offer back to them. Our ability to bring each other closer to our best selves is where the value of friendship lies.
Sometimes we learn that people are false in their character and not consistent in terms of who they say they are or what they say that they believe in. They will often complain of attack and needing rescue as they are keen on recognizing us as a rescuser of sorts even. We often learn that once they have had the opportunity to come closer to us.
I have friends who are learning that lesson now (I hope). I too learned this lesson a while back. Every so often I am still tested. We are bound to repeat these harder lessons if we are not careful in our selection criteria of who gets in.
We invite them in because we are subconsciously freeing our gifts and our ability to heal unto them. We think there is something we have to give up to get them to give us what we want. That is wrong and insulting to the Higher Spirit's intent for our wellness and prosperity overall. The ill spirits of the world are most attracted to the good. They seek us out and come to play with us. We win each time that we hold steadfast to who we are and repel them with the light of who we are when we focus on the mission or prize and conduct ourselves in a manner that makes us seem like the obvious victor. We will find that it is too bright, too warm, too healing too moral, structured for success and too drama free for them to stay. It is okay to let them slip away.
Walk away silently and think ," I saw Good in YOU" and hopefully that Goodness will resurface and stay with their next encounter.
The surge that the mind and spirit feels is one of teetering on the brink. So yes, a bit of "confusion" is likely because we are used to distinction within our personal selves. But what we are feeling is acceptance and acceptance requires no distinction. Because it is a mode of acceptance without definition it is neither positive or negative it is just different from what we are used to. IT IS FINE and ALL IS WELL. Your altering is for the altar.
In the pursuit and quest for our best selves, we are to touch and interact with as many honest and consistent spirits as possible and when that is the intention of your spirit that is what happens... we will. The transitioning out of some people is no different than leaves changing color and falling away from the trees in the autumn. It is the cycle, it is required to make room for that which is new, and it is good. No less are we nor greater than that which is subject to the cycles. Remember this: we are as majestic as the trees and as awesome as the clouds. The rejoicing is something we should do because they have come and gone and we are still standing and we have faith. Faith in a brilliant tomorrow and our ability to be a part of that brilliance if the day is granted to us.
Praying,loving, focusing BRILLIANT light on you!
Adrienne Wallace Hayward aka - Spirit Child ™
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